Archive - Pitching a Tent without Poles

and the quest for invisible wisdom

Nov 9, 2023 •

When I fantasize about my husband’s mistress

She is desperate for him.

Jun 11, 2024 •

Please manspread on my page

has anyone noticed men don’t really write about their bodies?

Apr 25, 2024 •

for friends who share words

Oct 18, 2023 •

I dreamed of daughters

how Rebecca Woolf helped me see otherwise

May 23, 2023 •

Birds in Flight

On Christmas afternoon, I lost the family pet.

Jan 9, 2024 •

Deromancing the Beast

the false narrative we love in love

May 14, 2024 •

parental rage and the characters we enact

Dec 6, 2023 •

the great parenting surrender

Aug 7, 2023 •

and I'm telling you why

Dec 19, 2023 •

what was, what is, and what might be

Mar 27, 2024 •

My Movie Star Break Up

and other erotomania

Aug 1, 2023 •

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